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Any advice on mobbing? #16 (permalink) Sun Oct 14, 2007 21:00 pm   Any advice on mobbing?
 

In the US, any talk of "mobbing" (as you're using it in this thread) would likely be a result of discussion about Heinz Leymann's research. Otherwise, words such as bullying or harassment are still the terms used here.

I certainly hope that this woman's lawyer has informed her that if she loses her case, she will be saddled not only with her own legal expenses and the court costs, but also with the legal expenses incurred by the other side!!! As I understand the German legal system, she might initially be able to receive "Rechtskostenhilfe" from the government. (You mentioned that she is destitute, so she would qualify to have her legal expenses paid by the government.) However, after the case has been decided, the state will keep track of her financial situation (unless she won the case), and if she begins to earn money, the government will expect to be paid back the money it paid out for her case. The only thing I don't know is exactly how high her income would have to be before the government would demand to be paid back. And, of course, legal fees and court costs tend to add up to quite tidy sums.

In my experience, lawyers have a tendency to not even mention these sorts of unpleasant details.

Naturally, if she were to win her case outright, all legal expenses would have to be paid by the other side.
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Any advice on mobbing? #17 (permalink) Mon Oct 15, 2007 20:16 pm   Any advice on mobbing?
 

That's a very accurate observation. She can get her governmental funding as long as the state of Saxony thinks she'll win the case. Sadly enough, she probably won't win the case. Even the lawyer told her so. But this girl is obsessed with the idea of "justice must be done" and "I want my scholarship back coz this is my last chance". Problem is that in my situation I can't tell her much. I'm just the interpreter, so I have to refrain from taking sides. I just wish I could give her a valuable tip other than "you have no chance, leave it". I really believe that she was bullyied, but it looks as though she has no chance to make a case for mobbing.
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Any advice on mobbing? #18 (permalink) Tue Oct 16, 2007 17:23 pm   Any advice on mobbing?
 

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She can get her governmental funding as long as the state of Saxony thinks she'll win the case. Sadly enough, she probably won't win the case. Even the lawyer told her so.


If she is destitute, how has she managed to afford both an interpreter and a lawyer?
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Any advice on mobbing? #19 (permalink) Tue Oct 16, 2007 19:14 pm   Any advice on mobbing?
 

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She can get her governmental funding as long as the state of Saxony thinks she'll win the case. Sadly enough, she probably won't win the case. Even the lawyer told her so.


If she is destitute, how has she managed to afford both an interpreter and a lawyer?
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Whenever she gets a bill, she finds people to pay for it. How and why I can't tell.
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Any advice on mobbing? #20 (permalink) Wed Oct 17, 2007 13:46 pm   Any advice on mobbing?
 

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Not knowing any of the people involved and so few details makes it tough to judge the situation. If she's truly been the victim of so-called "mobbing", I can understand her desire to give her victimizers a taste of their own medicine and to set things right. But what will she gain? It sounds to me as if she's already begun a process of simply saddling herself with debt.

Even if she won her case, I'd be willing to bet that it would take longer than the estimates she's been given. A LOT longer. That's the nature of the legal process.

It sounds as if she speaks very little German. That means she wouldn't be able to do much in the way of defending herself directly. Literally everything would be indirect for her -- the words and interpretations of other people rather than her own words. Presumably everything submitted to the court would have to be be written in German, so she wouldn't even be able to check the documents written by her "own" people for accuracy before they were submitted to the court. And would everything written and said by the other side have to be translated into English for her?

I get the initial impression that she has little to no idea of exactly what she's getting herself into and just how hard, frustrating and expensive it may well end up being. Does she realize that she will in essence continue to be "mobbed" by the other side during the court proceedings? Obviously the other side is going to mount a defense, and obviously the opposing lawyer will want to paint as negative a picture of her as possible.

What will happen if she wins? Will she get her scholarship back and continue working towards her PhD at the same university? In the same department? With the same people??? Shocked
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Any advice on mobbing? #21 (permalink) Wed Oct 17, 2007 17:19 pm   Any advice on mobbing?
 

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One of the schools I work for occasionally uses me to interpret in legal matters. Today I had a second meeting with a lawyer and a woman who appears to be a victim of mobbing (the woman, that is). Her scholarship was terminated prematurely by the institute she had worked for. The institute is connected to the university, and she was supposed to do her PhD in a special field of microbiology. To her mind, they simply wanted to get rid of her because she had the feeling that they wanted to get her out of what they felt was a homogeneous team. She just didn't fit in. The way she described it, she was treated in a very disrespectful and also discriminating way for both religious and ethnic reasons.


Hi Ralf,

Do you happen to know more about the ethnic and religious background of that woman? Also, what expression do you have of her? I think in a situation like this there usually are three sides: the victim's side, the victimizer's side and 'the truth'. If I understand you correctly, we are talking about microbiologists. I could imagine that some of them have probably had contact to people of different religious and ethnic backgrounds and maybe some team members of the group in question have even lived abroad. Of course I'm just speculating here, as Amy said, without knowing more details it's really difficult to give any advice.
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Any advice on mobbing? #22 (permalink) Wed Oct 17, 2007 21:47 pm   Any advice on mobbing?
 

Yankee wrote:
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Not knowing any of the people involved and so few details makes it tough to judge the situation. If she's truly been the victim of so-called "mobbing", I can understand her desire to give her victimizers a taste of their own medicine and to set things right. But what will she gain? It sounds to me as if she's already begun a process of simply saddling herself with debt.

Even if she won her case, I'd be willing to bet that it would take longer than the estimates she's been given. A LOT longer. That's the nature of the legal process.

It sounds as if she speaks very little German. That means she wouldn't be able to do much in the way of defending herself directly. Literally everything would be indirect for her -- the words and interpretations of other people rather than her own words. Presumably everything submitted to the court would have to be be written in German, so she wouldn't even be able to check the documents written by her "own" people for accuracy before they were submitted to the court. And would everything written and said by the other side have to be translated into English for her?

I get the initial impression that she has little to no idea of exactly what she's getting herself into and just how hard, frustrating and expensive it may well end up being. Does she realize that she will in essence continue to be "mobbed" by the other side during the court proceedings? Obviously the other side is going to mount a defense, and obviously the opposing lawyer will want to paint as negative a picture of her as possible.

What will happen if she wins? Will she get her scholarship back and continue working towards her PhD at the same university? In the same department? With the same people??? Shocked
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Hi Amy,

This is a very well-considered estimation of her situation. I agree with everything you said.

It is quite obvious that she has well-meaning friends who are kind enough to support her. Still, I find very hard to get close to her. She wants a very indifferent and unbiased translator. I am impartial, but it is still quite hard to be sitting on a the fence while paring my nails. After the last lawyer's appointment we went for a coffee and she explained why she thinks it's a good idea to stay here and wait for justice to be done. All I did was ask questions and allude to possible consequences she might encounter. She then complained to my agent that I was taking sides. Obviously she doesn't like facing the prospect of losing.

And then there is my personal opinion. I think she wants to get her scholarship back for reasons related to both career and love. About the latter I can't be sure, but the way she still speaks highly about the very man (her old boss) who revoked her scholarship I find quite unusual.

I believe her when she says that nobody liked her because she didn't want to party with the others and kept herself to herself. She can probably be peculiar and demanding, but she is not a bad or extereme person at all. A bit like the teacher's pet at school all the cool people avoided. And it seems as if there were too many 'cool' people in her old job.
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Any advice on mobbing? #23 (permalink) Wed Oct 17, 2007 21:58 pm   Any advice on mobbing?
 

Torsten wrote:
Hi Ralf,

Do you happen to know more about the ethnic and religious background of that woman? Also, what expression do you have of her? I think in a situation like this there usually are three sides: the victim's side, the victimizer's side and 'the truth'. If I understand you correctly, we are talking about microbiologists. I could imagine that some of them have probably had contact to people of different religious and ethnic backgrounds and maybe some team members of the group in question have even lived abroad. Of course I'm just speculating here, as Amy said, without knowing more details it's really difficult to give any advice.

Hi Torsten,

Her grandparents were from India, and she is Hindu. People in her university task force were experts on microbiology from all corners of the world, but they were mainly Westerners (and Christians). They liked their parties and their drinks, and they all socialised a lot. She was the odd one out, and she frankly told them that she didn't want to drink with them and that she didn't approve of way they were celebrating. That was probably the cause for being mobbed out of her job. Her professor was also very sociable with his PhD students. There even used to be photos of him on the official website that showed him in quite a merry state. These photos have been taken off.
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