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is "intimacy" derogatory?



 
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is "intimacy" derogatory? #1 (permalink) Tue Feb 26, 2008 15:59 pm   is "intimacy" derogatory?
 

My dictionary says that "intimate" has a meaning "Of or involved in a sexual relationship", especially between people who are not married.
Is it used in a derogatory sense? Immoral? Not proper? Or just used to describe the relationship between couples?
Can "intimacy" be used between a boy and a girl who grew up together, once best friend of each other, probably finally fall in love?

Thank you very much!!
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is "intimacy" derogatory? #2 (permalink) Tue Feb 26, 2008 22:40 pm   is "intimacy" derogatory?
 

"intimate" does mean than, but is usually seen as positive, as it suggests passion, warmth and care. However, it might be used occasionally in a very formal place in a euphemistic way, as in, "were you intimate?" during police questioning or something.

It's rare to use the term "intimate" when talking just about friendship, but if these people eventually fell in love, it would be quite alright to say talk about their "intimacy".

I hope that helps. :)
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is "intimacy" derogatory? #3 (permalink) Wed Feb 27, 2008 4:53 am   is "intimacy" derogatory?
 

Hi azalea

It is not at all unusual to use the word intimate to describe a close friendship or relationship. Such a friendship does not have to be sexual or even result at some point in marriage. The adjective itself does not suggest anything immoral or improper.

Here are the various definitions in the American Heritage Dictionary:

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1. Marked by close acquaintance, association, or familiarity.
2. Relating to or indicative of one's deepest nature: intimate prayers.
3. Essential; innermost: the intimate structure of matter.
4. Marked by informality and privacy: an intimate nightclub.
5. Very personal; private: an intimate letter.
6. Of or involved in a sexual relationship


Here are a couple of examples:

"We invited only our most intimate friends to the party." (our closest friends)
"His intimate knowledge of the city made him a perfect tour guide."
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is "intimacy" derogatory? #4 (permalink) Wed Feb 27, 2008 6:42 am   is "intimacy" derogatory?
 

Thank you, glitterfairy25 :)
Thank you, Yankee :)

Both very helpful!
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