The perfect person?

[Thunguyet94]

Hi Everybody, I am quite young and I have a lot of ambitions. My smallest ambition is taking part in the district's exam ( The exam is made to find good students in the district, who is winner in this exam will have a lot of advantages in study in the future ). But my English's teacher didn't choose me. I was very sad, but sader when I don't know why didn't my teacher choose me.Instead of me, she pick another one who is not good in English as me I wish she ( my english's teacher) gave me the reason why. I realize that everything I do has mistakes in it ( nothing I have done is perfect) even when I try my best. What should I do ? Seem like it my destiny or something, when I nearly achieve something, it disappear.
. What should I do to change my destiny ? Please give me some advise. Thanks a lot.

[Joao Fonseca]

Hi dear friend, What should I do to change my destiny ? Please give me some advise. Thanks a lot. that's is the perfect question you should have done to yourself.
first of all: NEVER LET ANYONE GET YOU DOWN. I'VE BEEN THROUGH THIS. NEVER GIVE UP YOUR ENGLISH STUDIES, ALWAYS KEEP UP STUDYING. I USED TO BE LIKE THIS. LONG AGO TO STUDY ENGLISH FOR ME IT WAS LIKE SPEAKING TO A WALL. PLEASE YOU BEST MISTAKE IS YOUR BEST TEACHER. YOURSELF.
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Your last mistake is your best teacher.

[Thunguyet94]

Thanks, I will try

[Happytofita]

Hi friend,

As Joao mentioned, never give up, and never make your failure certain by being the first to be convinced of it. Another thing, do not say I WILL TRY, instead, say I will do it.

Best wishes

[Thunguyet94]

Thank you !

[Mya]

"The easiest thing in the world to be is you. The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don't let them put you in that position."

[Happytofita]

That was very profound of you, Mya.

[Prezbucky]

Know thy self

(or "thyself")

If you are an orange, you'll have a tough time convincing others that you're a lemon. So go on being an orange, celebrate your orangeness, and figure out how being an orange can be put to your advantage (legally and ethically, of course).
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[S. Becker]

Just carry on learning and enjoy it! You will never pick up a language if stress and pain are present. And don't believe those language programmes, which promise that you will learn a language in 30 days or 2 weeks. These things take time.
Your English teacher might have his or her own reasons for not choosing you, but just keep on learning and don't give up.
Try and see if you can do an exchange programme at school or uni with an English-speaking country so that you can practise.

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To Mya.

[Torsten]

Hi Nguyet,

I suggest you simply ask your English teacher what criteria she used to nominate the candidate for the district exam. If those criteria were measurable and qualifiable you will at least know what you can do to be chosen next time. If there were no such criteria then you shouldn't worry too much about your teacher's choice since there can be all kinds of reasons why she chose that other girl over you.

Let me know what you think.
Regards,
Torsten
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[Thunguyet94]

Actually, there is no criterion. But I'm feeling much better now, I'm going to take the district's exam in others subjects ( Thank God for giving me this chance ) . I'm so happy to be a member of this forum. . Thank you guys so much. Best wishes to you guys.