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The conception of marriage, as well delicate situation, changed many things today, even our traditions have changed.
Arranged marriages succeeded more than love marriages, because even the Couples didn't see or they didn't know each other, at least there's
engagement before marriage, which give them a time to know and get used to each other, than Love comes after marriag. |
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| #33 (permalink) Thu Jan 22, 2009 14:46 pm Single-sex or co-educational schools? |
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| thank you sahid for your posts I don't want to add more than you because what you say is right, but one small thing I want to say, not every muslim get married on the traditional way I know a lot of saudi and muslim people who get married after they fall in love and they are so happy now. I am saudi girl and I'm muslim too, I live a love story with a syrian man and we decide to get marry after I finish my studies. |
And I i suppose your parents don't know about your relation with a syrian man?
Because arabians parents, don't like those things, i mean thier girls fall in love with someone before marriage. Anyway this issue is still blurry and controlled by the traditions. Wish you good luck.
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| #34 (permalink) Thu Jan 22, 2009 14:50 pm Single-sex or co-educational schools? |
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| Aryam wrote: |
Hi All
The conception of marriage, as well delicate situation, changed many things today, even our traditions have changed.
Arranged marriages succeeded more than love marriages, because even the Couples didn't see or they didn't know each other, at least there's
engagement before marriage, which give them a time to know and get used to each other, than Love comes after marriag. |
You are right, Aryam. Sahid, however, talked about another thing. He said you see your wife for the first time after you marry her! Which is not the case in Islam. |
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| #35 (permalink) Thu Jan 22, 2009 14:54 pm Single-sex or co-educational schools? |
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hi aryam,
yes what you said is absolutely right about the arabians parents.. but I am not afraid of doing that since I know what I am doing is not wrong.
thank you any way for your comment. |
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| #36 (permalink) Thu Jan 22, 2009 15:43 pm MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN... |
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hi Aryam..
your comment is most welcome as it is an excellent outcome in the light of traditional values..as well as religious concept..
many nations falsely believe that arranged marriages are from the ancient era..but now they are slowly becoming aware of the effects of the issues perforated by love marriges..and their consequences
what our ancestors taught us for our well being both in mental as well as physical health are still standing like the China wall with time tested results..
thank you for expressing your views boldly..
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| #37 (permalink) Thu Jan 22, 2009 15:54 pm bold enough to say... |
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hi Nour25...
your declaration about your life-partner selection has not stunned us even though you are from a rules-abiding society....
because you are a student of management and so we hope you know how to manage your future life as well.
We wish your selection is a right and suitable choice and we greet you for a very happy satisfied long healthy memorable married life..
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| #38 (permalink) Thu Jan 22, 2009 16:05 pm Single-sex or co-educational schools? |
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| thank you my friend sahid for your comment but don't worry about me ,you know me very well I can definitely manage my life and make the right decision in the right place. |
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| #39 (permalink) Thu Jan 22, 2009 17:20 pm MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN... |
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| Sahid59 wrote: |
hi Aryam..
your comment is most welcome as it is an excellent outcome in the light of traditional values..as well as religious concept..
many nations falsely believe that arranged marriages are from the ancient era..but now they are slowly becoming aware of the effects of the issues perforated by love marriges..and their consequences
what our ancestors taught us for our well being both in mental as well as physical health are still standing like the China wall with time tested results..
thank you for expressing your views boldly..
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Actualy, yes that what they think about arranged marriages,it may came from ignorance or something like that, but even we delete those traditions (for example), we have a strong evidence which is our religion, and best exemple from our prophet's life.
Religion support the arranged marriage as the succeed model,and there's no doubt about that, even though, life is developed nowadays, but some rules must be always present in our life, and we can't change it in the name of modernization, religion is the most important basic for our success life.
There's still one more thing, some traditions are false and has nothing to do with religion, because our religion is very clear in regard to marriage, and made for it an essencial base.
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| Aryam wrote: |
There's still one more thing, some traditions are false and has nothing to do with religion, because our religion is very clear in regard to marriage, and made for it an essencial base.
Best Regards. |
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| #41 (permalink) Thu Jan 22, 2009 17:31 pm Single-sex or co-educational schools? |
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wish you all the best in your life..
don't worry..you have the option to EDIT your posts here...if you need..!!
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| #42 (permalink) Thu Jan 22, 2009 17:48 pm Single-sex or co-educational schools? |
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| Aryam wrote: |
Hi All
The conception of marriage, as well delicate situation, changed many things today, even our traditions have changed.
Arranged marriages succeeded more than love marriages, because even the Couples didn't see or they didn't know each other, at least there's
engagement before marriage, which give them a time to know and get used to each other, than Love comes after marriag. |
You are right, Aryam. Sahid, however, talked about another thing. He said you see your wife for the first time after you marry her! Which is not the case in Islam. |
As I know, the couple must see each other, it's called (النظرة الشرعية).
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| #43 (permalink) Thu Jan 22, 2009 18:04 pm Single-sex or co-educational schools? |
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| Aryam wrote: |
Hi All
The conception of marriage, as well delicate situation, changed many things today, even our traditions have changed.
Arranged marriages succeeded more than love marriages, because even the Couples didn't see or they didn't know each other, at least there's
engagement before marriage, which give them a time to know and get used to each other, than Love comes after marriag. |
You are right, Aryam. Sahid, however, talked about another thing. He said you see your wife for the first time after you marry her! Which is not the case in Islam. |
As I know, the couple must see each other, it's called (النظرة الشرعية). |
That's right, Aryam. |
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| #44 (permalink) Fri Jan 23, 2009 7:27 am Single-sex or co-educational schools? |
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| Aryam wrote: |
Hi All
The conception of marriage, as well delicate situation, changed many things today, even our traditions have changed.
Arranged marriages succeeded more than love marriages, because even the Couples didn't see or they didn't know each other, at least there's
engagement before marriage, which give them a time to know and get used to each other, than Love comes after marriag. |
You are right, Aryam. Sahid, however, talked about another thing. He said you see your wife for the first time after you marry her! Which is not the case in Islam. |
As I know, the couple must see each other, it's called (النظرة الشرعية). |
as far as I consulted the Muslim scholars here, they are positive that according to Imam Hanafi, there is no binding condition that every groom MUST see his bride before the marriage..they confirmed that it is only an option which may be performed according to wish and will..
(that is why photos are provided to have an idea about your would be's..)
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