Self-Confidence

[Nesma22]

Self- confidence is very important issue to be discussed here , as amatter of fact I understand its importance in our life and how it shapes our behaviour tward others
but I do not know how to trust myself and how to blieve in my abilities and skills it is very difficult for me I think if I begins trust myself all of my problemes will be solved

[Nour*]

you are totally write Nesma self confidence is the pest way to live as a free person
do you know what I'm like here ! is that "it doesn't matter if you know this much or that much of English the important thing that you want to know and we'll help you" as a very kind site .
I don't know how to trust myself and how to believe in my abilities and skills it is very difficult for me toooooo
thank you Nesma if you find how to start beating this please inform me

[Kitosdad]

Good morning Nesma & Nour,

Self confidence is simply a belief in ones self, and you two have it in Spades.!

Why else do you find yourselves here, and being able to voice your doubts ?

The simple act of stating your doubts speaks volumes.

Most folk would hide this fact, but not you two guys ( ? ).

You step up to the line and state, "I have no self confidence ",
which proves to me that you do have.!

It takes guts and self confidence to declare a weakness.

Never doubt yourselves ... THAT is a weakness. You both CAN do it.!

KITOSDAD.
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[Nour*]

Thank you KITOSDAD you're so kind
but you know if we just say we want to have some thing we won't have it unless we start to do a supportive action to improve it
also to have some one encourage you that'll be fascinating

[Soklengchan]

:wink: Good morning! I am a new friend just come to join the forum and my writing skill is not good and also the grammar too! Can you help me to improve my writing skill, some time i don't have any ideas to write what i want and the most things that i meet is to write the report on what i have done to my boss. I am cambodia, I work for NGOs.

Thanks you in advance for you help to improve my english learning.

Sokleng Chan,
Cambodia.

[Soklengchan]

please help me to correct my sentences as (all Cfi committees need more back support from CC, Commune clerk and provincial accountant or FAE in order to handle further financial transaction effectively and accurately for their Cfi financial report and It will be better if they could received any additional on-job training or coaching.) I think that it is hard for me to write this sentences. Thanks you before hand to correct my english writing.

[Kitosdad]

In order to handle further financial transactions effectively and accurately, all Cfi committees need more back-up support.

This should be available from :- CC, Commune clerk and provincial accountants, or FAE.

It would be far better if they received additional on-job training or coaching.

Soklengchan, that is the best that I can come up with, as I don't know anything more than what you have posted. I hope I have made some sense of it.

KITOSDAD.
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[Soklengchan]

KITOSDAD, I would like to tell you that my enligh writing and speaking is not good as other colleague in my workplace, moreover i am not feel confident to write english and speak to other people. what should be improve to be good at writing and speaking.

Sokleng,

[Kitosdad]

Soklengchan, that is a very difficult question to answer. Many books have been written on just those subjects.

I have been trying to learn the German language, and I've found one of the best ways is to read children's books, as they have the easiest words to pronounce and understand.

Alternatively, find anything in English to carry around with you, and read and speak the words to yourself in your head. Writing just becomes an automatic extension of the reading.

As you read the written word you note how the words are spelt.
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As an example, note the differences in my post and yours.

I would like to tell you that my enligh writing and speaking is not good as other colleague in my workplace, moreover i am not feel confident to write english and speak to other people. what should be improve to be good at writing and speaking.

I would like to tell you, that my English writing and speaking is not as good as my colleagues in our workplace. Moreover, I don't feel confident when writing English, or when speaking to other people.

What can I do to improve.?

OK, your spelling is very good, with few faults.
You still are using ( i ) instead of ( I ) when referring to yourself.
The names of all countries should start with a CAPITAL letter.

Overall, you write and spell very well. You just have to collect your thoughts before you start writing. Think of what you want to say, and the order in which you want to say it for others to clearly understand your meaning.

You really have to master these basic steps in writing English if you ever hope to make progress. Please try another post, including all of the above points, and really think about it, not concentrating in the negative, " I can't do this ". You CAN.

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[Soklengchan]

Kitosdad, Thanks for your comments on my issues I will try to find the right book to read and speak the words as you said.

Anyways, I would like you to correct my sentences of my progress report as below:

Provide Cfi financial management training to CCs, Clerks, CFi committees, CDS, and CLFT in 3 provinces such as Pursat, Kampong Chhnang and Kampong Thom provinces, the training output as below:

1.In Pursat province: there are two Cfi financial management trainings in this province the first training hold on 3rd to 4th March 2009 and second training hold on 5th to 6th March 2009 at Great Green Center in Pursat Province. The training which was delivered by Finance and Administrative Expert, provincial accountant and supported from the Training Expert.

The training outputs : the total of 94 participants( 12females, 82 males) and consist 64 Cfi committees, 10 Commune clerks, 11 Commune Councils, 3 CLFTs, 1 KCDS and 5 CDSs. All participants especially CFi committees have received a basic skills in handing bookkeeping on bank, petty cash receipt and disbursement with supporting documents were mentored by CCs and commune clerks during the training.
2.In Kampong Chhang Province: There is a Cfi financial management training for Kampong Chhnang and Kampong Thom provinces which was hold on 10th to 11th March 2009 at Sovann Phom Hotel in Kampong Chhnang provinces. The training was delivered by Finance and Administrative Expert, provincial accountants and supported from the Training Expert.

The training outputs : the total of 47participants( 7females, 40 males) and consist of 33 Cfi committees, 4 Commune clerks, 4 Commune Councils, 3 CLFTs, 1 KCDS and 2 CDS. All participants especially CFi committees have received a basic skills in handing bookkeeping on bank, petty cash receipt and disbursement with supporting documents were mentored by CCs and commune clerks during the training.
Challenges from the training: Cfi committees were come from different education background and it is hard to pick up and very slow for them to pick up and understanding well on the topics discussion and offered.
Recommendation: All Cfi committees need more backups from CCs, Commune clerk and provincial accountant or FAE in order to handle further financial transaction effectively and accurately for their Cfi financial report and It will be better if they could received any additional on-job training or coaching.
To review and finalized on Cfi financial management training materials with TE and it have been submitted to MOI for printing out to CFi committees for implementation of Cfi budget management.

For the more, I will not acess the interet from tomorrow untill 09-Apr-09 because I have to work at field which place have no any internet cafe.

Thank you in advance for your help.

Best Regards,

Sokleng,

[Kitosdad]

1.In Pursat province: There were two Cfi financial management training sessions. In this province, the first training was held on 3rd. to 4th. March 2009, and the second training was held on 5th. to 6th. March 2009, at Great Green Center in Pursat Province. The training was delivered by Finance and Administrative Experts, provincial accountants and support was provided by the Training Expert.

The training outputs : The total of 94 participants,
( 12 females, 82 males) and consisted of 64 Cfi committees, 10 Commune clerks, 11 Commune Councils, 3 CLFTs, 1 KCDS and 5 CDSs. All participants, especially CFi committees, have received a basic skills training in handing cash, book-keeping, petty cash receipt and disbursement, with supporting documentation, and were mentored by CC's and commune clerks during their training.

2.In Kampong Chhang Province: There was a Cfi financial management training session for Kampong Chhnang and Kampong Thom provinces, which was held on 10th. to 11th. March 2009, at Sovann Phom Hotel in Kampong Chhnang provinces. The training was delivered by Finance and Administrative Experts, provincial accountants, and support was provided by the Training Expert.

The training outputs : the total of 47participants,
( 7 females, 40 males) and consisted of 33 Cfi committees, 4 Commune clerks, 4 Commune Councils, 3 CLFTs, 1 KCDS and 2 CDS. All participants especially CFi committees, have received a basic skills training in handing cash, book-keeping , petty cash receipt, and disbursement with supporting documentation, and were mentored by CCs and commune clerks during the training.

Challenges from the training: Cfi committees came from very different educational backgrounds, and it was very difficult for some of them to pick- up, and understand sufficiently, the topics discussed and offered.

Recommendations : All Cfi committees need more backups from CCs, Commune clerks and provincial accountants or FAE.

In order to handle further financial transactions effectively and accurately, and for their Cfi financial reports, it would be better if they could receive additional on-job training or coaching.
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To review and finalized on Cfi financial management training materials with TE and it have been submitted to MOI for printing out to CFi committees for implementation of Cfi budget management. Sorry, but I could make no sense from this final paragraph.
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