How we can increase our dignity from among the society we life in?

[Haji]

As we all know, a man is born in b/w "dignity and shame", He/she is responsible to lead the self into Glory or evil, according to my understanding the book "how to win friends and influence people by dale carnage" i figured out that there is a connection b/w our habits and our dignity, so taking a measure from your overview understanding at that mentioned book, give a little bit paragraphing about "how we can increase our personal production capability"? Because of the more we increase our production capability the more we get same thing hinges us forward to the progress and Missions we have desired. And at last dignity knocks the door with less pop up.

Hajji

[Kitosdad]

Haji, just a tip my friend. Instead of spending your time reading Dale Carnegie you should be browsing the dictionary to make sure you are spelling words correctly. You are having good ideas at the expense of your learning. Don't try walking before you are able.

Basic English and a good dictionary will get you a lot further than Dale ever will.

Kitos.
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[Happytofita]

Torsten likes that book, Haji.
I think I have the book, but I have not had the chance to read it yet.

[Haji]

Halloo kitos.

Thank you very much for the advice you gave me, but I think you are forgetting same thing. Dale carnage's book is a book based on facts and to me I can benefit from it in two ways and more.
1) To practice my ability to read article and as well as construe it as the author intended. 1) Its vocabulary-oases. I mean it, while reading this book every page you come in reading, you will get same thing new.

And by the way, you know in this world there are a people who always look at one side in every aspect they see. like you saying that "correct your spelling" I think you forgot or you want only criticize same think you have no idea, that there is other issues that you can evaluate "how good or bad the person is doing" you just evaluated (1 out of 4) this reveals that "you are reactive person" but you better be proactive.

And at last remember that we are her to wrong same thing, not to right every thing, because of if we can right every thing we shouldn’t have visited this web, and learned English.

Thanks again for your advice, reading makes perfect, and always help you not to consider always the grammar and concentrate all the time checking your grammar because of its same times wasting your time , in addition with it , avails you to recognize while speaking or writing same thing that you are doing so great and correct.

Hajji

[Shyone]

You will excuse me,

you might read well, but if you are not able to construct a proper sentence without spelling mistakes to tell what you read, all your learning is in vain.
I can make neither head nor tail out of what you were trying to tell because you see, I'm not a native speaker, and for me it is a guessing game to find out what you were trying to say.

Everyone should be able to use a spell checker, everyone should by now know the difference between some and same.

Someone who isn't good enough in English doesn't know what you mean, and all because you think spelling is not important.
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[Haji]

I didn't say spelling is not impartial but I said we are hereby to wrong same thing and than right it. I use spelling checker but you have to add the account that human can’t be 100% perfect, you can say to me please check your spelling but you have no right to say to me "don’t misuse your time reading dale carnage's books" .

On the other hand, I reviewed my spelling mistakes from my first post, and saw two spelling errors. I think, I wrote more than 200 letters so at that period, you mayn't evaluate the person "as same one wasting his time reading and neglecting the basics" most of my time, I spend writing and reading, for only to reach my Goals.

Besides what you said "your words have neither tail nor head", well, Human is always great protestor, please, just copy my last article and best it to "spelling checker software" and find out what is wrong with it.
Doesn’t offence the person unless you have a proof and if you find the proof just show him with out condemning?

See you to morrow. I think you are trying to express you idea but you have to check you answer before posting.

Hey people please review my sentences from my last two postings. And tell me where “the fruits haven’t yet got ripen?”

[Happytofita]

Hello Haji,

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. I recall some 5 years ago I had an argument with my English teacher. My English at that time was really terrible. You can have a look at how it was 4 years ago. She said some things that I did not like at all. She really annoyed the hell out of me. Then, I decided to challenge her, and I did. That was my first step towards English. At that time, it was a horrible experience for me. But now I know that it was just a kind of necessary evil.

Good luck.
: o)

[Haji]

If my words are so hot , please excuse me in general, it was just a debate, we are hereby to take our mistakes, I took my mistakes, :Mss, shyone and Mr. kitos please excuse me, sorry, and by the way please read my articles and point out the sick sentences, and me too I will.

Remember guys, if its posting I always wrote it so hastily with out giving any care so let’s make our dreams a live by fizzling out our mistakes by means of "normal advice not the condemnation".

Tell me what you have not understood in a cool manner.

Have nice night people

hajji

[SkiIucK]

Hey Mouhcine,

How did you challenge her? That's really intriguing.

Regards.

[Happytofita]

Hello Dimitar,

I tried to change my habits as Torsten says. She was convinced that 'this student is not going to improve'. So I challenged that view.

I also challenged myself.

Thanks for asking.

Take care,

Mouhcine
: o)

[Haji]

Halloo every one.

Receive me many thanks from the bottom of my heart, I am now sending this because I got aroused earlier, and my habit is "to forgive when I am sleeping, and salute when I get up" so Salute all of you, and be with god’s umbrella

Well:- challenges are part of the envious reactions in which all of us deliver when we are in a competition, or same thing else, it has many advantages, such as, its part of our motivation oasis, it gives us encouragement and as well as the ability to get confident, if we look it at an other angle, its the force which pushes us forward to our missions, and when you are in the process of vying, you are thinking that its not good to compete with other, but at last when the aftermath is get, you will appreciate you past actions and the preparations you did while you were attempting to get through to end your desires.

Good cock-crow ladies and gentlemen.

Hajji

[Kitosdad]

Good morning Haji. If you wish to deceive yourself that all you are writing here is easily understood, and that you need no help, then I'm happy for you. I wish you good luck.

Kitos.
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[SkiIucK]

Haji, I have one suggestion for you. Stick to more simple words. 'Vie' and 'aftermath' are words you'd want to replace.

My two cents.

[Haji]

Okay. I took your suggestions, my friend. And Dear kitos please don’t say that and don’t make me a person who puts his effort at only the circle of concern instead of the circles of influence, I am here to help my self as to make my dreams come alive, and in addition with , no one needs to deceive him self, but what I argue is, the way you wanted to advice me is really disgusting, you pointed out "that I am wasting time with reading that book" it was beautiful to advice me in an other way of consultation, "like check the spelling man". But criticizing and stigmatizing once personality and efforts is same thing which is denied by all".

Every body should listen, we are here to learn English by winning first a nice friendship in this forum, and one of the ways that you can win is "IF YOU WANT TO GATHER HONEY, DONT KICK OVER THE BEEHIVE" Means, don’t criticize, condemn or complain, and that is what many friends in this forum are doing now.

Hey, Ladies and Gentlemen, Lets learn English by winning first a nice friendship, and at last our effort will be fruitful.

Please understand first and than be understoond.


Hajji

[Kitosdad]

Good morning Hajji. My suggestion that your time would be better spent reading the dictionary was really implying that you should find the meaning of most of the words you are using in your posts. In your haste to justify your correctness you are making even more errors.

" Please understand first and than be understoond."

Really good advice Haji. There is a lesson to be learned there, and in your own words.

Kitos.
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