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#2 (permalink) Thu Jun 25, 2009 23:33 pm To all the staff members of this web |
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Good evening
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide y you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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Hadeer You can meet me at english-test.net

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#3 (permalink) Sat Jun 27, 2009 2:40 am To all the staff members of this web |
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Hello Hadeer. That was really an excellent post which should register in the minds of many people here. You are absolutely right. People are sent into your life at different times, and are sent for many different reasons. The reason usually only becomes evident after they have gone from our lives, never to return. As individuals we usually think of ourselves as being indestructable, but that is so very wrong. The grim reaper does not differentiate between good or bad, young or old. He just swings that scythe, and whoosh, you're gone. We are all here in this life to learn. The ones who enter our lives bring with them acts which lead us to love them or to despise them, but we learn, and in doing so, we grow. Life is indeed a great teacher.The important thing is to ensure that we learn the lessons that life brings to us. Love your parents. Love your children. Accept your own limitations and try to improve. That's all that can be ever asked of you.
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Kitosdad I'm a Communicator ;-)

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