TOEFL® essay: What is the best age to marry?

[Sel]

It's difficult to say when I will get married. I can't decide what the best age to marry is. However the best age to marry can be twenty seven. When you're twenty seven, you are ready for life and you have responsibility.

First of all If you are twenty seven years old, you are ready for your life. In addition possibilty you'll have finished your school. Therefore, most probably you'll have found a job. Because of this you can get money and maybe you can buy your own house. In fact If you have your own house anybody can't disturb you. Moreover you can bring up own baby because you get some money. For example, you work at a normal company. you could get about three or four hundred thousand. So you could live some rich and bring up own baby.

Furthermore When you are twenty seven years old, you can have more responsibility. For instance people, who are twenty seven, they can decide carefully when they are in a bad situation. They don't take silly risks because of their age. For example, I have two friends now, one is twenty and she always does something without thinking. On the other hand the other is thirty she always thinks before she decides.
As a result my friend who is thirty she rarely makes mistakes. Therefore I think we should get married when we're twenty seven or older than this age.

In summary In my opinion the best age to marry is twenty seven. There are many reasons. As I said before If you're twenty seven you are ready for life and you have responsibilties. Therefore The better life will be waiting you. I have come to the conclusion If you want to decide correctly for marriage, you should wait twenty seven. This is why I think the best age to marry is about twenty seven.

[Musak2304]

The age of the marriage is decided on the maturity level one has.It totally depends on the person when he wants to enter the relationship where he wants to take one step step ahead in his life,where actually he wants to take all the responsibilites of the coming partner.
The right age of marriage cannot be decided by any person.It is the feeling one gets and one wants to explore.A person of 22 can be mature enough to handle complex tasks and a person of 33 cannot handle the complex tasks.If there is compatability a relationship of 22 year young person can sail smoothly.
Hence in the summary i would like to say it is all the man perception when he wants to get married.

[_Huynhde_]

I absolutely agree with Musak2304. You can't define exactly when you will get married. As Sel wrote when you are twenty seven, but if you can't find a partner to get married in that age, so what will you do? Moreover, I think that girls would get married earlier than age of twenty seven. When you're at the age of the most beauty, about twenty to twenty five, when a lot of men are around you, so you can have more chance to choose the best one, right?
On the whole, I think people should get married when they have enough preparing factors for it:
The first one I mention is his job, or his earning. If one can earn good sum of money enough not only for himself, but also for other one, so when he gets married, at least he doesn't let his partner hungry. So finance is the most important thing, I think
The second one I want to say is love. You can get married without love, but your new family can't last so long without it. Just imaging about the way you have to behave with a partner, who lives with you everyday in a house, eats in a same table with you, sleeps with you in a same bed... But you don't love him. It will be terrible for your life.
The age for married also plays important rule, but in my opinion, we should get married in period of age about twenty to thirty, instead of definite age.
Just working hard to earn a lot of money for a good life in future, and getting married when your heart tells you. I think it's the best way to have a happy family with your own partner in future!

[Sel]

[_Huynhde_]

"we should get married in period of age about twenty to thirty, instead of definite age"

[Sel]

It asks your opinion and In my opinion it is 27. But you can say twenty to thirty It is up to you. It is your opinion when you write this essay, you say twenty or thirty . I wrote definite age and kept on writing about that age. Main subject is you choose age or in period of age then you write about this.

[Sel]

And you can say
you should get married when you feel ready.

[Richard]

Hi sel

There is nothing to have discussion over.
my opinion:

..Anyone has his/her own personal opinion and beliefs. It's my invincible belief that feeling a sense of satisfaction is highly significant for having happy life besides its impact on other dimension of life such as health and so on. We can enjoy considerable latitude in deciding who we want to marry with and even when we want to get married.

Financially secure for copping with the upcoming problems in your future shared life and being mature enough from physical and mental point of view, which is different from one person to another, are two factors for getting married. In my opinion, the age of getting married depends not only on your culture, traditions and the customs of where you live but it also depends on what is your expectation of life and how do you like to share your private life.
Since getting married is a momentous decision and as we all know everyone's successful life and our marriage are inextricably intertwined, we have to be careful about choosing our partner, we should make logical decision not emotional one otherwise it would result in failure. Love is good but if it mixes with logic would leads to successful marriage. Thus it is reasonable to assume that verifying the exact age of marriage might not be logical. Nonetheless, one the other hand you have to consider that If you get married late you might confront some problems such as : giving birth for women, difficulties of upbringing the children , the gap between the age of parents and children that leads to difficulties of understanding each-other, and maybe inability to enjoy the family life.
If we imagine that life is a puzzle, finding the lost piece of this puzzle would perfect our lives. Therefore, finding the partner you want to marry with is top priority to get married. As I saw everywhere, Girls get married at the earlier age, sometimes at the teenage years. Additionally as far as I'm concerned the age girls are expected to get married differs from that boys are, and it is common in the overwhelming majority of countries. I have heard on the TV and I have read some psychologist research that scientific research has shown that the gap between the ages of girls and boys should be over 3 and under 7 years, but is it a rule?? Of course not. If you love someone you would marry him/her regardless of his/her age or something else.
In consequence, Dear sel we can draw a conclusion that one don't have to get married at the certain age. However I love the age of twenty seven. so I was wondering If I have to get married next year? No, I consider myself too young for it...it was my dreamy age for getting married when I was younger. I suppose that it might be a good age for a girl to get married.

It is not an Essay at least I don't consider it an essay, because not only didn't I outline before writing but also I think the conclusion and introduction paragraphs are not perfect.
sorry if I made some mistakes.

I just wrote it spontaneously in 15 minutes to express my personal opinion about marriage.I could write more.

Let me know if you have any suggestions.
keep writing.
Thank you.
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[Richard]

Hi sel.
where are you?
we haven't seen you for ages.
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[Sel]

Hi Richard Jack c.!

Unfortunately, I'm studying my University exams. They're disturbing me! I hate studying but I have to.
How are you doing?

[Richard]

Hey
Fine,thanks.
Unfortunately!
How come?
you hate studying?!! It reminds me when I was a kid and so playful. I always liked to have fun rather than studying in school.
In contrast, I love studying now...especially physics, sometimes a challenging math question and mechanical books.
I'm studying for my upcoming English tests. one of them, I mean TOEFL test, is in next month...
now I like to read English novels, some miscellaneous resources and watch English speaking movies and read but I have to study academic English for my test.
good luck with your exams...It'll be finish soon, so study hard to prevent being regretful later on.
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[Sel]

My exams are draining They'll finish end of this weekend. I am on tenterhooks to finish them.

I think everyone always likes to have fun rather than studying except you :p Now you love studying. Love :S
I like math too but I hate physics but I have to learn them. Because my all lessons are about physics, math and chemistry. For 4 years I am trying to get used to them but still I can't.

My toefl exam is December 20th. As you said before, I like watching American movies and some English reviews. In addition, Because of my one lesson, I have to translate some english paper into Turkish.

[Richard]

[Sel]

I've looked it. Thank you again and Good luck with your Toefl exam!

[Tomasito]

Hello Richarde! I'm wondering about your nationality. I thougth that your are native speaker of English. Now you are saying that your are studing for the upcoming test! I like physics too. In general I love science than everything. It involves knownledge and imagination.
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