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#2 (permalink) Mon Apr 12, 2010 21:24 pm Do we really need churches? |
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Hi, Kitosdad I'm afraid you are right. But most people don't know about the churchmens who are greedy for gold. Mass media don't tell us about it much. And people don't take this problem seriously. Ignorance is a parent of many evils. It's always been the case.
Yet some people still find solace in the church and there still are an honest priests who help sinful mens to find the road to God. _________________ Slow but sure. |
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#3 (permalink) Tue Apr 13, 2010 4:59 am Do we really need churches? |
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Hey, Kito, you're wrong about a good deal of this.
God DID command places of worship to be built, and in the Bible you can even read his commands as to how one was to be designed.
Most clergymen don't make much money, and there's a lot of stress involved in their jobs. The stress even spills over onto their families.
People who read the Bible with no expert guidance are liable to misinterpret it and go nuts on things, as you see with the people who cause political trouble because they take the allegorical parts of the Bible literally. (The Bible even remarks on that sort of problem.)
Since in most countries churches are supported solely by the voluntary donations of the members, what does it matter to you if they exist or not? Hardly anybody gets rich off them, and if nobody asks you for the money, who cares?
And where did you get the idea that churches don't go out and actively help the people in their communities? They've been doing that for hundreds of years. Just one example: I know a nun who lives on practically nothing and spends most of her day driving the terminally ill children of working poor parents to their doctor appointments, so that neither of the parents has to quit work, which would cause even worse hardship for their whole families. Then during the day she drives around and takes lunches to the people who live on the street and in abandoned buildings. (These people could live on government assistance, but for some reason they don't.) This may be almost the only food those people get all day. Bakeries and food stores bring it to the rectory of my church in trucks, and a bunch of laypeople make the lunches every day, and then they drive to places where you can't imagine people would be living, but they come out of nowhere to get the nourishment. Separately from that, the same church collects and gives out food to people who are down on their luck.
Multiply that work by hundreds of thousands, or millions, and you'll be closer to reality in terms of what churches do. To say that churches don't help their community, you have to be deliberately ignoring an awful lot of the obvious. |
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#4 (permalink) Tue Apr 13, 2010 8:12 am Do we really need churches? |
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Good morning Jamie. I appreciate your input, but I remain convinced that religion is purely a money-making sham. Many honest priests are used to maintain the semblance of good, but behind the curtain I'm sure there are more self centred people than honest Christians.
Your religious beliefs are well founded in the good that you see around you. I choose to look a little deeper. I don't like what I see.
When the church hierarchy cease to defend those who offend common decency, then I will see things in a different light.
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#5 (permalink) Tue Apr 13, 2010 9:21 am Do we really need churches? |
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Good morning Bill, I agree with your statements, especially with this part: If you believe in God and the Bible, surely it would be sufficient to gather your family around you, and fulfil your commitment to God within the confines of your own homes. In our country the people are Muslims and not Christians, but you can see the very same places called mosque. These places are build in purpose of worship God, but in a more snakily purpose, they are places to keep people close to the government. So, in this way they can continue to their rapacity. In general, I think that the religion was created to destroy the normal life by a group of people. If you believe in your God, then what's the point in shouting his name, so everyone could hear that?
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#6 (permalink) Tue Apr 13, 2010 11:31 am Do we really need churches? |
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| Mixmixi wrote: |
Good morning Bill, I agree with your statements, especially with this part: If you believe in God and the Bible, surely it would be sufficient to gather your family around you, and fulfil your commitment to God within the confines of your own homes. In our country the people are Muslims and not Christians, but you can see the very same places called mosque. These places are build in purpose of worship God, but in a more snakily purpose, they are places to keep people close to the government. So, in this way they can continue to their rapacity. In general, I think that the religion was created to destroy the normal life by a group of people. If you believe in your God, then what's the point in shouting his name, so everyone could hear that?
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Morning Bill + Mixi
Think of all the weird communes, cults or strange secluded little Hamlets we see for example in the US or even think of how some fathers can "become god" and perhaps torture or corrupt their own family. - Does this not tell us - some centralized guidance is required.
I think Im agnostic but I also think religion has good points and bad points.
Is it a belief system that is quintessentially flawed -
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#7 (permalink) Tue Apr 13, 2010 12:45 pm Do we really need churches? |
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How many people go to church in your country these days? Has the number been the same in the last, say, 50 years or has it been falling gradually? _________________ Non-native speaker of English
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#8 (permalink) Tue Apr 13, 2010 16:09 pm Do we really need churches? |
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By Antonio Avelino (non-native) As a christian it is a great shame hearing comments like these. Iīm afraid to say this but YOU need to study the Bible and other holy writings deeper.Even the Bible urges Godīs worhippers to gather themselves in order to build themselves in faith(Hebrews10:24,25). The purpose of a church or a congregation is to fortify those who want to please God. Jesus tells his followers to spread his message, the question is: How can they do this?Isolately?Each one according to his way of thinking?By no means. It is needed a body of people who should be organized in order to build themselves up to and to spread Jesus message all over the world. I acknowledge that there are many churches that hypocritically use Godīs word for their profit and this is not what the Bible teaches. For example, the Bible forbids christian to engage in war and in politic affairs but many so-called christian do, the Bible is against exploitation of poor ones as many clergymen do. Despite these sad facts, there is a religious group whose members try to imitate Jesus footsteps, they avoid killing their fellowmate in war, they love themselves and their neighbors and try to imitate Jesus. My intention is not to make proselytism but to say that not all churches are money-making schemes made by men. God wants to be worshipped by those honesthearted people who gather to strengthen their faith and help others to do the same.
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#9 (permalink) Wed Apr 14, 2010 12:48 pm Do we really need churches? |
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Hello Zua. "Beware of addressing religious issues disrespectfully." Is asking a simple question being disrespectful? The vast majority of "worshippers" only go to church on Sundays. Do they not pray on the other days, or do they do so in the comfort and privacy of their own homes? How many religious people do you personally know who go out of their way to seek out others who desperately need help ... how many? Do you yourself do so? I witness many people who walk well away from drug addicts and alcoholics who stand harmlessly in the railway station here in Essen. These people are in desperate need of help, but I don't see very many Christians approaching to offer any. Perhaps if they were to walk into a church one Sunday morning ... but no, they would be turned away, and measures taken to ensure that they would never have the opportunity to ask the many Christians there for help. They don't all ask for money from you. Only a gesture of humanity.
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#10 (permalink) Fri Apr 16, 2010 15:21 pm Do we really need churches? |
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Silence is golden, or so it seems. No Christians reading, and ready to tell us what they personally do for those in need? _________________ Keep it simple ... Keep it interesting. |
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#11 (permalink) Fri Apr 16, 2010 17:52 pm Do we really need churches? |
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| Kitosdad wrote: |
| I appreciate your input, but I remain convinced that religion is purely a money-making sham. Many honest priests are used to maintain the semblance of good, but behind the curtain I'm sure there are more self centred people than honest Christians. |
If it is a money-making sham, then hardly anybody is making much money at it. I drive past MANY storefront churches daily that serve the indigent, and you can see that nobody's making any cash in those places.
And as for the presence of insincere Christians, the old saying goes that the church is not a museum of saints, but a hospital for sinners.
| Kitosdad wrote: |
| I choose to look a little deeper. I don't like what I see. |
You're not looking that deep. I thought the same thing for several years, until I looked deeper than you are looking.
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| When the church hierarchy cease to defend those who offend common decency, then I will see things in a different light. |
You must be talking about the sex scandals. The child molestation rate for public school employees in the US has been shown to be three times that among Catholic priests. One of the things that made the problem worse is that at the time it was all happening, the bishops had a typical 1960s naive faith in the ability of psychotherapy to "cure" people. Now we know that doesn't work, and they should be putting more faith in the criminal justice system. |
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#12 (permalink) Fri Apr 16, 2010 18:49 pm Do we really need churches? |
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"and they should be putting more faith in the criminal justice system."
I so agree with you Jamie, but can you see it happening any-time soon? _________________ Keep it simple ... Keep it interesting. |
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#13 (permalink) Sun Apr 18, 2010 11:11 am Do we really need churches? |
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| As I'm an atheist, I haven't been to church for a few years. Last time I went there was because of my mother, who believes in God. So I don't care how they get their money, they don't earn living from me. But those sex scandals are too much I think, it's against church's laws. It looks stupid, when they teach people something and don't do that themselves. |
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#14 (permalink) Sun Apr 18, 2010 13:24 pm Do we really need churches? |
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| Kitosdad wrote: |
"and they should be putting more faith in the criminal justice system."
I so agree with you Jamie, but can you see it happening any-time soon? |
It's already happening in the United States. In my archdiocese, they remove a priest from service as soon as they get a whiff of that kind of misconduct. If they examine the complaint and find it is unfounded, he may go back into service. (After all, it's cheap and easy to make a false molestation complaint.) If they think the complaint has some merit, the priest gets turned over to the civil authorities. Of course, my city didn't have the kind of molestation scandal they have had in other places, so I don't think the priests were ever covering up for each other as much.
My big interest would be to see the difference in behavior among churches in socialist welfare states versus those in free countries. We know, for example, that the rate of volunteerism and personal charitable giving is lower in countries like France or Germany where the state has largely replaced charitable institutions, because people expect the government to fix the problems with all the taxes they have to pay. Additionally, the government (at least in Germany) forces financial support of the churches through a tax.
In the US, churches aren't taxed, but they're otherwise completely on their own. Members support them out of their own pocket through donations and largely run their charitable activities.
So in Germany it's less work to keep a church open, but nobody goes to church. In the US, it's hard to keep a church open, but a LOT of people go to church, and in the US churches often do a better job than the government at taking care of troubled or indigent people.
I have known people who were down on their luck and were sustained only by churches. They refused to apply for government assistance, because once you're in the clutches of the welfare system it's extremely hard to get out. The churches do their best to help people while keeping their families intact (sometimes the government makes the father move out), and they rejoice when the people become independent again, rather than setting up rules to keep them dependent, like the government does. |
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