problem-solving

[Cz]

What s your approach to problem-solving and how does it work for you? Give examples to support your response.

Depending on the problem to solve, I would use different strategies to deal with it. If it is an emotional problem, I would be patient and friendly, whereas if it is a working one, I would behave aggressively and focus.
On the one hand, I think that family and friends are the key factors that make a person entirely happy. From my point of view, if you lack them, you will feel devastated. For those reasons, when I have personal problems, I always tried to solve them with patience and love whatever it is my fault or not. One example that comes to mind is when my sister got angry because I told my parents that she had failed three out of four requirement courses. Although she was behaving selfish and childish, I begged her to apologize me. First, because it was her business. Second, because I suffered a lot those days when she did not even talk to me.
On the other hand, when I have a job problem, I did not suffer at all for it because I appreciate more my own happiness than my working life. So, the attitude that I adopt is to be aggressive and focus. For instance, I had an argument with my boss last week. She judged me to be a lazy and irresponsible worker. I did not feel devastated at all, because I am not this sort of things. But, I felt angry. I fiercely blamed her for everything she told me. She felt so badly that she had to beg me to stay in her working group. I did not care whether she was suffering or not because of my speech. I was just concerned about my own satisfaction.
All in all, I always try to solve my personal problems urgently with patient and love but I solve my working problems aggressively without taking care about the other´s feelings.

TOEFL listening discussions: A conversation between two students (1)

[Kitosdad]

What s your approach to problem-solving and how does it work for you? Give examples to support your response.

Depending on the problem to BE solveD, I would use different strategies to deal with it. If it is an emotional problem, I would be patient and friendly, whereas if it is a working one, I would behave aggressively and focus.
On the one hand, I think that family and friends are the key factors that make a person entirely happy. From my point of view, if you lack them, you will feel devastated. For those reasons, when I have personal problems, I always tried to solve them with patience and love WHETHER it is my fault or not.

One example that comes to mind is when my sister got angry WITH ME because I told OUR parents that she had failed three out of four requirement courses. Although she was behaving selfish and childish, I begged her to apologize TO me. First, because it was her business. Second, because I suffered a lot those days when she did not even talk to me.
On the other hand, when I have a job problem, I did not suffer at all for it because I appreciate more my own happiness than my working life. So, the attitude that I adopt is to be aggressive and focus.

For instance, I had an argument with my boss last week. She judged me to be a lazy and irresponsible worker. I did not feel devastated at all, because I am not this sort of PERSON. But, I felt angry. I fiercely blamed her for everything she told me. She felt so badly that she had to beg me to stay in her working group. I did not care whether she was suffering or not because of my speech. I was just concerned about my own satisfaction.
All in all, I always try to solve my personal problems urgently with patienCE and love(,) but I solve my working problems aggressively without taking care about the others feelings.
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Good morning Cz. This was a acceptable essay.

Kitos. 8/10
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