Softening critisim "a bit"

[Belles1654]

Can you say,
You gave me "a bit" too much food. Or is this an oxymoron. I've heard it. I've said it to soften criticism but is it a colloquilism or what?

"a bit" too much
"a little" too much

Thanks in advance for all your wonderful responses.
Belles

[Beeesneees]

Hi Belles,
It's a common term, and in your example means 'a morsel; a small amount'.
"All they had left was a bit of bread."
It is used by English speakers a great deal , and you could use it to describe the softening of criticism.
"Could you give me a bit of advice?"
"Please tone it down a bit?"
"That's a bit harsh."

However in phrases such as 'Can you pour a bit of water into this cup for me, please?" it is definitely not correct. (Though I've heard this quite extensively too)
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