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What is the right response to "Do you mind"?



 
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What is the right response to "Do you mind"? #1 (permalink) Thu Feb 09, 2006 7:39 am   What is the right response to "Do you mind"?
 

I often get confused when someone asks, "do you mind....?'' is it correct to say "Yes, I mind" or should i simply say ''I mind"

In other words can a ''YES'' be used in a negative sense or a "NO'' for an affirmative response?

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Do you mind #2 (permalink) Thu Feb 09, 2006 8:01 am   Do you mind
 

Dear mugiallan,
in english, ''yes'' should not be used to mean ''no''..i think it would suffice to simply say ''i mind'' or ''i dont mind'' rather than ''yes, i mind'' or ''no, i dont mind''.

I think ''yes, i mind'' or ''no. i dont mind'' are contradicting statements.

i hope that solves your confusion.

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Do you mind #3 (permalink) Thu Feb 09, 2006 12:13 pm   Do you mind
 

Hello Mugiallan and South Carolina,

Your comments have caught my attention. Curiously enough, ‘I mind’ and ‘I don’t mind’ on their own don’t sound like complete answers to me. I would say: ‘Yes, I do’ or No, I don’t’. Or, to be more emphatic, ‘Of course I do!’ or ‘Not at all!’ Do you think these sound too formal? Most often than not, though, I reply 'No, I don't' (out of shyness, I suppose), unless it's really, really very inconvenient to me – I'm not a martyr, after all!

So, in answer to Mugiallan's question:

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In other words, can a ''YES'' be used in a negative sense or a "NO'' for an affirmative response?


I would say: Yes, it can. You can say 'Yes, I do (mind)' meaning 'No, please don't do that' and 'No, I don't (mind)' for 'Yes, you may/can do that' or ‘Sure, go ahead’ (less formal).

It would be so easy to just say 'yes' or 'no', but in English, it sounds a bit curt in formal speech, doesn't it?
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