#2 (permalink) Sat Oct 16, 2010 6:23 am determine the future by parents or by children |
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Whether parents should help determined the future of their children or Children are allowed to make their own choices
There are many arguments between children and their parents. recently. Parents often determine the future of their children on their own responsibility, but children want to make decisionS by themselves. In my opinion, both children’s choice and parents’ ADVICE should be taken into considerATION. TO allow children to make their own choices with the help of their parents is wisdom.
Let’s focus on the significance of children firstly. Due to the futures to be determined are belong to children, Parents ought to let their children have their own minds, in other words, make the final decision. Children may learn many things from the process of making SUCH decisionS, especially the ability of independent thinking.THE thinking faculty plays a crucial role IN a person’s whole life(,) ecause children MUST make decisions all by themselves some day, so if they can learn how to make their own choices when they ARE young, they will make decisions with ease in the future. In addition, children can learn the definition of responsibility through it. It means that children may understand what the decisions they made mean to them, and the responsibilities they shoulder, for society and themselves. All these will benefit them a lot.
The effect of parents cannot be ignored. Since the children are young, they may have little relevant experiences. However, their parents are socialLY experienced, so they can get useful ADVICE from their parents. For example, their parents may evaluate the feasibilities of their decisions or share their relevant experiences with them. With the help of their parents, children will make fewer mistakes. Besides, they can learn something from ADVICE. When they make decisions next time, they will become more experienced.
In general, determining the future of children all by children or all by parents is unwise. Let children choose their own future with guidance from their parents(.) THIS will guarantee children a rosy future!
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