What is the difference between "whom" and "who"?

[Patrick]

English Grammar Tests, Elementary Level

ESL/EFL Test #79 "Pronouns: who, whose, whom, which", question 2

My husband, ......... I love, sent me flowers at work last night.

(a) who
(b) whom
(c) which
(d) whose

English Grammar Tests, Elementary Level

ESL/EFL Test #79 "Pronouns: who, whose, whom, which", answer 2

My husband, whom I love, sent me flowers at work last night.

Correct answer: (b) whom

Your answer was: correct
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Can I use "who" instead of "whom"?

Patrick

[Alan]

Hi Patrick,

You need the object pronoun here - whom.

The sentence can be broken down into two:

My husband (subject) sent me (object) ...

I (subject) love my husband (object)

When you join the two sentences with a relative pronoun, you can see that you need whom:

My husband, whom I love, sent ....

Alan
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[Caroline]

Hi

Here's a way to help you how to tell the difference between "who" and "whom".

[Xavierka]

Very good explanation Caroline. Thanksss :)

[Wms]

YOU ARE BRILLIANT !!

[Ganesh]

I have friends 'who' love me so much that they threw a surprise birthday party for me last night

That young man 'whom' we owe many thanks saved our mom's life after the car accident

[Kati Svaby]

I have an example which say that if the relative pronoun who is an direct object I can use whom or who.

My sentence from the Google:
. The boy who(m) you saw yesterday is my brother.

Is it a good sentence? Or use of whom is obligatory?

Regards.[/b]
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